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Nigerian singer, Timi Dakolo, has expressed displeasure over the increasing rate of divorce cases in the country.  He also decried how the high rate of divorce makes marriage look meaningless in the society. He wrote; THE WAY PEOPLE ARE MAKING DIVORCE LOOK LIKE SOMETHING KOOL.. . LIKE YOUR MARRIAGE VOW MEANS NOTHING.. IT MAKES ME WONDER WHAT THEY THOUGHT FOR BETTER FOR WORSE MEANT.. IF YOU WEREN'T SURE.. WHY DID U GO AHEAD? DON'T GIVE LOVE A BAD NAME .. YOU GUYS ARE THE PROBLEM NOT THAT MARRIAGE IS BAD.. THIS SHALLOW AND IMPATIENCE GENERATION.. FIX YOURSELF.. MARRIAGE IS FOR TWO COMPLETE ADULTS .. DON'T ENTER INTO IT WITH YOUR INCOMPLETE SELF... MARRIAGE WILL NOT MAKE AN INCOMPLETE PERSON COMPLETE... YOU SHOULD COME INTO IT PREPARED AND COMPLETE ..BUT WHAT DO I KNOW?, AM I NOT JUST A MUSICIAN?

A few weeks ago, a lady identified as Lyrnda Onwuali went viral after she made a post on Facebook calling out her husband. She accused him of being abusive and revealed that he is financially dependent on her. She has returned on Facebook with another username to apologize to her husband saying that she told lies against him because she was angry. According to her, all the allegations she made about her husband are untrue and that she did it in order to express her anger over something that is now insignificant. She shared new loved-up photos with her husband and wrote; Hello Everyone, I a Lyrnda Onwunali (formerly ) but temporarily Zymmie David on here (Zymmie is the pet name for Ozioma, which happen to be my native name & David is one of the names given to my newly born son). I needed to change to this new name so as to prevent being easily identified by some unfamiliar accounts as I became an easy target for many who decided to turn themselves to an enemy. By the wa...

Recently, there was a case of  a pregnant lady who was brutally abused by her baby daddy that went viral, while weighing into Tonto Dikeh’s marital woes and Tiwa Savage’s viral domestic gender inequality, Nigerian investigative journalist, Kemi Olunloyo has reacted to all them in a post. She also revealed she was also brutalized when she was 9 months pregnant – She wrote; I was 9mos pregnant too with Lade in 1991 beaten up like this and bloodied. My baby had to be induced and forcibly taken out in the delivery room. Not before I struck back. Thank u officer Ronald Roberts for the gun protection idea. It worked! Ladies, better get your back up ready…. Oh yeah, I forgot the man is the head of the house abi. Lade will be 26yo next month and to this day, his dad tells him I inflicted bruises on myself in a 2yr abusive relationship which broke my engagement and I never married in my life. Thank God for officer Robert’s dated police reports I can show my now adul...

On the show, the singer spoke on gender discrimination in the society. She said: It’s real. I’m not going to say I’m completely comfortable with it but it is what it is.  You have to deal with it. If it means you have to work 10 times harder than your male counterparts, don’t complain about it, do what you have to do. We all celebrate people like Oprah and Mo Abudu and we don’t actually realise what they have to do to get to that point.  They probably had to do 20 times (more) than their male counterparts. Once you get there, you don’t complain about how you get there. So, whatever it is you have to do as a female, you just have to get it done. I know I’ll (ruffle) a few feathers but I also don’t think men and women are equal. I don’t think that’s how God created us… especially in the household anyway.  So I think as females… yeah we can be strong in our career, but when we are home we have to realise that the man is the head of the house.” She also had other thi...

A Nigerian couple identified as Mr. and Mrs. Joseph, reportedly welcomed a set of twins after 27 years of marriage, and 7 years of post-menopause. Olupage Photography, who shared photo the 57-year-old lady with her twins, wrote; “At age 57, …27years of waiting in marriage, …7 years post-menopause…Jesus wouldn’t let down their faith, He wouldn’t close their case. He turned their mourning into dancing. He gave them the sweet song of victory.  He gave them two bouncing miracle babies- a boy and a girl. We join the Josephs in singing His praises to the ends of the earth, cos He’s the God of awesome wonders- ONISE IYANU! If He could do it for Mummy and Daddy Joseph, He will do it for you too. Don’t give up on your most holy faith. Praise Him in advance. Give Him an upfront heartfelt worship. …Onise Iyanu You are the God of awesome wonders I’ve tasted of Your power Onise Iyanu You have shown me so much mercy Much more than I deserve My eyes have seen, my ears hav...

Talking about his marriage in a chat with Saturday Beats, the singer said that it always upsets him when he hears that lack of s§x leads to the failure of some marriages in Nigeria.  Using himself as an example, he said that he can never deprive his wife of s§x and advised other married men to emulate him. He said, “Marriage is something that you have to be very diplomatic about.  You have to be very careful and know what you are doing because it has its ups and downs. No marriage is perfect. Some people think that marriage is all about money but it is not.  It takes God and the couple to understand each other. Some people talk about cheating in marriage and that is why I sang in my song, ‘Igbeyawo,’ that women should not starve their husband of s§x. If you do that, it would bring problems in your home.  I don’t want lack of s§x to be a problem in my marriage. Any time my wife wants to have s§x, I would always give it to her, at any time.  “S§x shoul...

The Arthur George sock designer, 30, claims in the suit that the aspiring rapper, 29, punched him in the face and attempted to strangle him with an iPhone charging cable on December 14, 2016. He alleges that she was playing with his gun during a FaceTime call with his friends before chasing after him and repeatedly hitting him in the head and face. Rob claims in the lawsuit that he suffered injuries to his neck as a result of the alleged incident. He claims Chyna caused $100,000 in damages to his house — which he was renting from sister Kylie Jenner at the time — by breaking down doors, kicking in walls, smashing a TV, destroying an iPhone and wrecking a gingerbread house that was on display for the holidays. The Keeping Up With the Kardashians star also alleges that the model was under the influence of drugs and alcohol that night, and that she threw a chair at his Bentley as he tried to leave the house. from Us Weekly Magazine 

Actress Doris Simeon recently had an interview with Thisday where she was asked if single motherhood is now a norm in Nollywood.  According to her, women are not at fault when it comes to being single parents. According to her, it is the men who no longer want to play their roles as husbands. "Single motherhood is not peculiar to Nollywood.  If you go to the banking sector, there are single mothers there; in the military, in law firms and other fields, there are single mothers. It is not our fault; it’s just that men no longer want to play their role as husbands.  I am not a supporter of single parenthood: every man or woman has the right to live their life the way they choose.  It’s just by God’s grace that I am acting and producing.  Emotional trauma is not what I will encourage anybody to pass through. God created every woman for a man. So marriage is good".  The actress revealed that she is not legally divorced from her ex-husband and fath...

she wrote: "Girlfriend that cannot cook, is that one girlfriend??? If your girlfriend/ partner don't cook for you,,, don't just dump her but throw her the fuck away... same goes to the ladies... throw him the fucking fuck away... Slay mamas take note"

The Playboy founder passed away at the age of 91, leaving 30-year-old Crystal a widow. But having signed an ircon-clad prenuptial agreement before saying 'I do', it is thought that the former Playmate of the Year will inherit nothing of his multi-million dollar fortune. Although Crystal is believed to have never been added to Hef's will, she'll apparently be 'looked after' following his death from natural causes. It was reported by US Weekly in 2013 that Hef's $43 million fortune will be divided among his four children, the University of Southern California, as well as a list of charities the star supports. Crystal also reportedly called off her first wedding to the publishing legend in 2011 because she got cold feet. Crystal once publicly shamed her husband when she told the world they'd only ever had sex once, and that it lasted just "two seconds". From Mirror.co.uk

The Ghanaian actor reveals to Bellanaija in an interview...he say On how he and his ex-wife Damilola Adegbite balanced their marriage, son and work: I believe throughout our marriage, it was probably one of the most challenging things we ever did, however, the key word is balance. At times when we both had to work, our parents would be there to hold the fort. God bless family because they were and still are very supportive. However, since the divorce, we are obviously now reworking things to create a new balance between work, spending time with and raising our son. Dami is a wonderful woman and an amazing mother. Despite our differences, she and I will always be friends. So more than anything we will find ways to continue to make sure that Brian can still have a balanced upbringing filled with love and support. Both our families have been and are still very supportive in helping us take care of our son Brian when we can’t be there due to work.

President of the court, Mr Ademola Odunade, however, directed the former Super Eagle Technical Adviser to “pay a cash sum of N5, 000 to enable Anne move her belongings out of his house.” Onigbinde had gone to the court asking it to dissolve the marriage, saying his wife was “ a wasteful spender and an unrepentant troublemaker. “My lord, with my 79 years of age, I cannot continue to die in silence of Anne’s litany of problems.  “Among many other troubles I have encountered in the hands of Anne, I have also suffered uncountable financial losses during the process of trying to give Anne means of livelihood so that she wouldn’t be idle.  “On three separate occasions, I have established veritable business ventures for her and on each occasion, Anne wrecked the business. “I can’t continue in such wastage.  For many years, Anne has been a thorn in my flesh through ceaseless trouble-making as it is one day, one trouble in my home.  “Can you imagine that it was not ...

:: Klint da Drunk captioned the photo;  This is what God blessed me with. The most wonderful wife, a lady of good virtue, a rare flower in a world filled with thorns, a hard working, loving not to forget extremely sexy wonder of a lady. Mother to my 3 blessed, sharp, witty, smart, respectful, intelligent and lovable kids. Honestly, I cannot ask for more. I am blessed with the best family. prettylilien, If there is anything like a next life, I will find you and marry you over and over again. This life is not enough to enjoy living with you. HAPPY ANNIVERSARY SWEETY. #happyanniversary #klintdadrunk#DreZelCouture

  As seen on Facebook today... "My advice to every girl out Der, if your boyfriend refuse to suck ur Virgina Do u know wat u will do,. use your period take cook bitter leaf soup for him. Since he want to fuck but he can't suck"

  Jigawa State Governor, Alhaji Muhammad Badaru Abubakar daughter, Amina welcomed a baby boy with her husband Lawan Dahiru Mangal few days ago.  The couple got married last year in grand ceremonies attended by the high and mighty in politics and social strata in Nigeria. This is Amina's first child. Lawan Dahiru Mangal already has children from his first wife.More pictures after the cut